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Why Muslim Men Marry Little Girls

Muslims claim Muhammad is the perfect example for all time.  Allah says in the Quran 33:21 "Ye have indeed in the Messenger of Allah a beautiful pattern (of conduct) for any one whose hope is in Allah and the Final Day..." and Quran 66:04 "And thou (standest) on an exalted standard of character".  There are many other verses and ahadith (traditions of Muhammad, his sayings and doings) that stress how important it is to follow Muhammad for he is the "seal of the prophets".  Many Muslims believe him to be sinless. 
 
Through Islamic texts, we know that Muhammad married a little girl.  Aisha, the daughter of his best friend Abu Bakr, was 6 years young when Muhammad married her.  He was "kind" enough to wait until she was 9 to consummate the marriage. 
 
Sahih Bukhari
Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234:Narrated Aisha:
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became Allright, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.
 
Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151:Narrated 'Aisha:
I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)
 
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64:Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).
 
Those ahadith are enough reason for Muslim men to take child brides.  If Muhammad did it, they do it.   There is another reason though that isn't discussed as often....Allah.  In the Quran, there are instructions given about divorce.  Women who have been divorced or widowed have to observe a waiting period before re-marrying.  This is called an iddah and it's to determine if she is pregnant or if her husband wants to reconcile. 
 
In the Quran, it states:
 
065.004YUSUFALI: Such of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the prescribed period, if ye have any doubts, is three months, and for those who have no courses (it is the same): for those who carry (life within their wombs), their period is until they deliver their burdens: and for those who fear Allah, He will make their path easy.
 
Three distinct groups of women are mentioned in the above verse (ayah).  The first group is clearly menopausal women, those who have passed the age of monthly courses.  The third group is clearly pregnant women, those who carry (life...).  Who could the 2nd group of "women" be, those who have no courses?  The tafsir, commentary of the Quran, give us insight.
 
Tafsir Ibn Kathir
The 'Iddah of Those in Menopause and Those Who do not have Menses Allah the Exalted clarifies the waiting period of the woman in menopause. And that is the one whose menstruation has stopped due to her older age. Her 'Iddah is three months instead of the three monthly cycles for those who menstruate, which is based upon the Ayah in (Surat) Al-Baqarah. [see 2:228] The same for the young, who have not reached the years of menstruation. Their 'Iddah is three months like those in menopause. This is the meaning of His saying; "and for those who have no courses..." as for His saying; "if you have doubt..." There are two opinions: First, is the saying of a group of the Salaf, like Mujahid, Az-Zuhri and Ibn Zayd. That is, if they see blood and there is doubt if it was menstrual blood or not. The second, is that if you do not know the ruling in this case, then know that their 'Iddah is three months. This has been reported from Sa'id bin Jubayr and it is the view preferred by Ibn Jarir. And this is the more obvious meaning. Supporting this view is what is reported from Ubay bin Ka'b that he said, "O Allah's Messenger! Some women were not mentioned in the Qur'an, the young, the old and the pregnant.'' Allah the Exalted and Most Honored sent down this Ayah,
 
Another tafsir, Tafsir al-Jalalayn states:
 
And [as for] those of your women who (read alla'i or alla'i in both instances) no longer expect to menstruate, if you have any doubts, about their waiting period, their prescribed [waiting] period shall be three months, and [also for] those who have not yet menstruated, because of their young age, their period shall [also] be three months — both cases apply to other than those whose spouses have died; for these [latter] their period is prescribed in the verse: they shall wait by themselves for four months and ten [days] [Q. 2:234]. And those who are pregnant, their term, the conclusion of their prescribed [waiting] period if divorced or if their spouses be dead, shall be when they deliver. And whoever fears God, He will make matters ease for him, in this world and in the Hereafter.
 
I don't claim to be a religious scholar.  I'm just a normal person who wondered what Islam was really all about and took the time to read the Quran and many ahadith including Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim and Sunan Abu-Dawud.  I don't understand how anyone can say child brides or pedophilia are not a part of Islam.  Well, there are two circumstances that might explain why people would deny abuse of little girls is allowed by Allah and was committed by Muhammad, one is ignorance and the other is deceit. 
 
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